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The hardest goodbye: Navigating the decision to discontinue life support
This article discusses a sensitive topic. While it includes information about real-life experiences, it is not a substitute for...

Amy Lane
Aug 28, 20254 min read


Near Death Awareness vs. Near Death Experiences: Understanding the Difference
Visitors In the growing field of end-of-life studies, two phenomena often arise in discussions about dying: Near Death Awareness (NDA)...

Amy Lane
May 6, 20253 min read


The Importance of Anatomical Gift Donation: What You Need to Know
As and End-of-Life Doula, I assist my clients in clarifying their last wishes and help them with their plans. Currently, I am working...

Amy Lane
Apr 8, 20254 min read


Anam Cara: Embracing the Dying Journey Through Soul Friendship
the Anam Cara is more than just a companion; it is someone who helps another see their true self.

Amy Lane
Feb 3, 20254 min read


The Will to Die: It's Influence on the Dying Process
The will to die is a complex and deeply personal phenomenon that arises when individuals, often facing significant pain or terminal...

Amy Lane
Jan 10, 20253 min read


The Ultimate Guide to Living Your Bucket List
Have you ever daydreamed about soaring over the Grand Canyon in a hot air balloon or dancing under the Northern Lights in Iceland? We...
Amy Lane
Dec 3, 20243 min read


The Seven-Minute Life Review: What Exciting Things May Be Happening in the Final Moments of Consciousness?
The Seven-Minute Life Review: What Exciting Things May Be Happening in the Final Moments of Consciousness?
Amy Lane
Oct 16, 20245 min read


Understanding VSED: Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking
In the complex landscape of end-of-life decisions, Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED) is a significant, yet often...
Amy Lane
Oct 4, 20245 min read


Are You Ready to Attend a Death Cafe?
Artist: Hillary Cole Death Cafes are popping up in a city and town near you. You can find them being offered at coffee shops, library and...

Amy Lane
Sep 9, 20244 min read


The Weight of the Human Soul: What Does Science Have to Say?
A few weeks ago, I was seated with a group of death-curious folks doing what death-curious folks do: talking about death and dying....
Amy Lane
Aug 20, 20244 min read


The Gifts Found in a Cemetery
Ashaig, Isle of Skye, Scotland I am known to be found in peculiar places. Most recently, I took a trip to London and up to Inverness,...

Amy Lane
Apr 9, 20244 min read


Is a Will Something I Should Do? Umm...YES!
After many years of talking about it, my husband and I finally executed our will. We always had a "good" excuse for not getting it done. ...

Amy Lane
Mar 27, 20242 min read


Maybe: The Truth Can Set You Free
I recently sat at the bedside of a client who was showing many of the physical signs of a dying person. She was what is termed as...

Amy Lane
Jan 27, 20245 min read


"There's Been an Emergency!" Who Do You Call When the Unthinkable Happens?
Back in the day, pre-cellphone and internet days, we had an old writing desk in the front hall of our home. On the desk held the rotary...

Amy Lane
Dec 22, 20233 min read


Know Thy Neighbor
I am not sure if it's because we are in the midst of the holiday season, but my mind and heart has been on the topic of neighbors. You...

Amy Lane
Dec 7, 20233 min read


Behind the Curtain: Choosing Where to Die
This blog is an abstract of an article found in the New England Journal of Medicine titled, Where Americans Die — Is There Really “No...

Amy Lane
Nov 24, 20233 min read


Compassionate Care: The Role of an End of Life Doula
Hello. I am Amy Anam Cara. My birth name is Amy, which means "beloved". I added Anam Cara later to further describe my soul purpose as...

Amy Lane
Nov 17, 20232 min read
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